Easy, Long Lost Ways to Create Family Unity and Fun

Are you sick and tired of TV being your first (andthey keep wanting more.
maybe only) form of entertainment for your family?5. Project fun
Wouldn't it be great to have fun and interact instead ofHow about starting a project that the whole family can
just staring at a box? Fortunately you've come to thehelp work on? When I was a kid my dad decided we
right place for 8 long lost, easy and fun, suggestions forwere going to build a canoe. He got plans at the library
family activity that can be done virtually anywhere inand most evenings we were out in the garage
the world.working on it together. We used it for years on the
So get up off the couch and do these things on alakes near our home. A lot of wonderful memories are
regular basis:tied to that canoe.
1. On the boardwalkThink of something the whole family can pitch in on
No matter where you are, or where you live, there isand do together and then enjoy together later on. If
somewhere you can take a walk or a hike. Get out ofbuilding would not be interesting to your family try other
the house and see your neighborhood, your town, theoptions--design clothes, start a business, write books,
fields or mountains around you. Walking, talking, andmake scrapbooks, cook together, paint, plant a garden,
seeing together is a great way to have fun and getbuild model airplanes, do puzzles, etc.
some fresh air.6. School's out
2. Water worldEven when school is out, learning is in. Have each
Most kids love water, and frankly, parents probablymember of the family write down some things they
ought to get back in touch with it. Grab your swimmingwould like to learn to do. Compare lists and find
suits and go to the city pool, the YMCA, the river, thesomething that everyone would be willing to learn.
lake, or an open downtown fountain. For fun right atThen search out resources in your community to learn
home, turn on the sprinklers in the yard or grab thewhat you've decided. How about learning to dance, to
hose and have a good old-fashioned water fight.sculpt, to play musical instruments, etc. Learning is fun.
3. Yards of fun7. Meeting of the board
If the weather is nice, yard games are a great way toBoard games and card games are so readily available
play together, have fun, and even develop new skills.and really are fun in a box. There are so many to
Croquet, badminton, bocci, soccer, volleyball, or lawnchoose from that you can find one or two that your
bowling are great ways to bring back some "good oldfamily can enjoy together. We play games frequently
days" to your family. Try playing the outdoor gameson Sunday evenings, and during the summer, board
you loved as kid and see that your kids will love themgames are a regular part of the fun. Board games
too. Try Kick-the-can, Red Light Green Light, Motheralso teach following the rules, cooperation, compassion,
May I, Statues, etc. (For rules for these, and other,and creative thinking.
games ask for them through the contact page at8. Friends and family
marylougames.com)Consider the old practice of visiting friends and family
4. Reading Teammembers. If your kids groan at this suggestion start
One of our family's favorite things to do over thewith a visit to a friend or relative that also includes a
years has been to read aloud together. It's so fun tobarbecue, a movie night, or treats. Make the visits fun
get a book that everyone will enjoy and just sit downand over time the idea of visiting people won't seem
and listen together. Pick someone who enjoys readingso strange to the kids. Make sure that (eventually) you
and can give expression and voice to the people in theare visiting people of many ages. Kids can actually find
book. We've read both fiction and non-fiction. We readolder people to be very interesting. But start with what
in the car while traveling, in the evening at bedtime, onis familiar and fun until they are visiting pros.
Sunday afternoons. Usually none of us want to put theThere you have it, 8 long lost ways to get off the
book down, and the kids beg for one more chapter. Ifcouch, create fun for your family, and build unity with
you've never done this before just pick a good bookthe ones you love. Having fun together makes life
and start with just one chapter. Here's a hint: Alwaysbetter!
stop when you're in the middle of the excitement so